Easter Traditions
What are your favorite Easter traditions? Do you have a cherished Easter memory? One of my favorite memories took place not as a child, but somewhat early in my marriage. It was Resurrection Sunday and I was awoken by the annoying sound of the paper shredder. “Seriously?!” I thought to myself. Kevin is an early riser and I… am not. Moments later he came in the room with a twinkle in his eye. He handed me a basket full of colorful crimped shredded paper strips. I didn’t need any further encouragement to get up. You see, I’m a nut for a good Easter egg hunt. I had so much fun hopping around, looking for the candy Kevin had hidden in all kinds of obscure places throughout the house.
It’s a shame there aren’t egg hunts for adults. Competing with children is rather frowned upon. Actually, what a fun idea. I think maybe I’ll host an egg hunt party for grown-ups.
A fun aspect of traditions is that you can start new ones. About five years ago I started praying for a fun tradition to practice with our children to celebrate the death and resurrection of Christ. Kevin and I desired to create a family tradition that would point directly to Christ. We wanted something where the meaning could not be mistaken. I have to say, our family has had quite a bit of fun with our new tradition. I have been waiting for months to share it with you!
On Good Friday we light a taper candle at 9:00 in the morning (Mark 15:25). The candle represents Christ upon the cross. At 3:00pm we blow out the candle, representing Christ’s death (Mark 15:34-37). The candle is left on its holder until dusk. Then the boys take the candle and wrap it in a strip of linen. The wrapped candle is then put in a clay tomb that we made (Mark 15:46). The tomb is then covered and sealed by tying it shut with string.
Next, our family goes around the entire house and tapes down all the light switches in the “off” position. We do not turn on any house lights Friday night through Saturday. Everyone has a flashlight and in the evening we light some candles. The boys have great fun with this. They look forward to it every year. It’s almost like camping, but in your own home. I think they have the most fun if they catch Mom or Dad accidentally turning on a light. You wouldn’t believe that turning on a light switch is habit, but it is! Taping down the switches definitely helps.
There are several aspects of this new tradition that I appreciate. One aspect is that we get to experience the timeframe. Too many times we gloss over the words in the Bible. What took hours to accomplish, we read in a matter of seconds. This gives us a greater appreciation of how long Jesus hung on the cross and how long the disciples waited in darkness and despair. Not only that, but the darkness is real and tangible. The light that we took for granted is gone. We experience how much we miss the light and take note of our limitations without it.
On the morning of Resurrection Sunday, the candle is no longer in the tomb! Kevin, our resident early riser, retrieves the candle from the clay tomb and hides it somewhere in the house. The one who finds it first gets a prize. The Jesus candle then shows up in random places for the next 40 days. As I’m writing this I’m realizing that we haven’t done anything to symbolize the ascension at the end of the 40 days. Perhaps we’ll tie the candle to a helium balloon or strap it to a rocket – the boys would really like that!
This week consider what you do and why you do it. Don’t be afraid to start something new or modify the old. Too many times we get stuck doing something just because “we’ve always done it that way.” Many traditions have meanings that are overlooked because it becomes routine, mundane. This passion week evaluate the details of your services and traditions. You may find a hidden treasure.
The scripture references this week reflect some occurrences of passion week. Pray that God would give you a fresh perspective, a hidden treasure. Pray that this would not be a week of annual repetition, but one of fresh meaning. I invite you to experience passion week through the eyes of Matthew or Mark.
Matthew | Mark | |
Monday | 21:12-22 | 11:12-26 |
Tuesday | 21:23-22:14 | 11:27-12:12 |
Wednesday | 26:1-16 | 14:1-11 |
Thursday | 26:17-30 | 14:12-26 |
Friday | 27:11-61 | 15:1-47 |
See the bottom of post The Jesus Candle: A Home Celebration of Easter for a full list of supplies and timeline activities.
This post was originally published as “Our Traditions” on April 15, 2019.
Cousin David votes whole-heartedly for a helium balloon. While the rocket idea is awesome I like the idea of the candle going on an adventure, WITH a small note attached explaining the purpose; spread the Gospel via balloon and let God decide whom shall receive the note.
And the adventure continues!
What a good idea! It’s kind of like a message in a bottle, but in the sky. That’s creative. I like it. Thanks for sharing, David.
Heather, your Easter celebration helps bring the miracle of Resurrection much more experiential. Thanks for sharing
One of the best ways to remember or appreciate something is to experience it! Good to hear from you, Russ.
The darkness in real time is a powerful thought. I really appreciate the intentional way to embrace that darkness is real but that Sunday then comes and the light was not overcome. So cool to continue have Jesus reappear over the next 40 days.
Too true. We are uncomfortable with darkness and jump all too prematurely to “Sunday’s coming.” It is coming, but we lose the full extent of the power when we skip over the darkness. I’ll tell you, I appreciate the light so much more after spending two nights in the dark! Also, thanks for the reminder. I’d better go stash the candle again! Maybe in the cereal box…
Well as they say best paid plans often to awry. This week we have been reading about Jesus & his crucifixion. The kids have had so many questions about so many things that we sometimes as adults we take for granted. Such as why would a good friend turn against you (Judas) knowing you would die. To Peter being told by Jesus that he would betray him that why Peter wouldn’t be aware of it and not do it. I can’t help but be amazed by these children that are little vessels to be filled up! I praise God for these afternoons that I am able to.spend with them along with all the eggs that benefits me too!
You are giving your grandchildren such a wonderful gift! How wonderful to have this special time with you in an environment where they feel comfortable and encouraged to ask questions. This will certainly grow strong roots in their faith, providing a firm foundation. God desires us to ask questions and seek Him for answers. This is a critical aspect of faith and growth. Well done!
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What a great family tradition and so wonderful that it is all about Jesus. When I was a little girl every Sunday we all got new Easter dresses, shoes, a little purse & a hat. Then my grandma took us children to church on Easter morning.we would go home after church to hunt eggs & we each got a ho!low chocolate bunny. Of course if the weather as warm our bunny was somewhat misshapen or a blob at the bottom of the box! Ahh the memories . Well that was then. When we get up Easter morning & i do different things!. This year to wake up the kids i will start clapping my hands very loud & saying get up. For He has risen! Our Lord has risen. He is no longer in the tomb!! Where is He children. When the kids have been gone at school this week i have been making a circular thorn like Jesus had thrust on his head at each place setting for breakfast.It seems sad but it’s a time to rejoice!! He no longer wears that type of crown now does He!! Then we will pray by praising His holy name and for his mercy & logins for us.
What wonderful memories! I love to hear the creativity on what you’re planning this year. Sounds like you are an early riser, too. You’ll have to let me know how it goes Sunday morning!
What a wonderful tradition. You are teaching your children the true meaning of Easter.
It is nice to have something meaningful that the boys don’t roll their eyes about but look forward to every year. Maybe they won’t outgrow this tradition as quickly.
Wowl, a great tradition, more involved than dying eggs!
It is a lot of fun. But personally, dying eggs is rather involved. There’s no such thing as a single color egg for me!